A few days ago, got a call from that person. He was talking so normal with me. He asked me about my health, how is my life going on and all that usual stuff. It was strange actually, how he can be so normal with me after what had happened to us!! The situation was not same as before.
Firstly, we became friends and then fell in love. The relationship held for almost 2 long years. We saw every phase of life in those 2 years. We laughed, we became cosy, we flirted, we teased each other, we fought, we cried, we begged, we lost ourselves; we broke ourselves and finally decided to ended up the everything. Yes, that was our mutual decision of breaking up as we cannot make other happy in that relationship.
He moved on easily. He is engaged now, soon he will get married and live happy life, I guess, I hope.
That’s OK. That I can accept. 🙂
But the question I am having, why the hell he still wants to be in touch with me? Why does he want to know about each and every detail of my life? Why does he even care for am I doing good in my life or not?
The situation is kind of, he wants to be my friend because I am the only friend of his till now. I was happy in this thing when we were in a relationship but in this situation, is it fine to be with him as friends???? May be he is right to have friendship with me and keeping connections with each other and being normal as before when we were just friends but somehow I don’t feel any right thing in this. I feel so because, if he will stay as whatever relation then how can I forget him and move on?? How can I get over him? And what if one day, I have to face him and his fiance together? Am I able to see that situation normally?
I always think that “At one time lovers cannot be friends anymore. As their one times talks, fights, broken promises or moments always comes in between their friendship or whatsoever relationship they will have!!!”
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“Life is too small to make it complicated!! If you want to go away from someone else, Go but never make your footprints in someone’s life like they don’t even move on from you. You cannot stand in between’s situation. Either you hold hand or you leave that hand so that person can hold someone else.”