Last evening I was having a conversation with one of my friend.
Well, there is nothing special in that conversation except one thing.
She had a fight with her boy-friend and after the fight, there is one thing he said to her,
“I think we should break up. You are so sweet to be hurt. I don’t deserve you. You are an amazing person and I think you DESERVE a better person than me.”
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Except this statement there is nothing more to say here.
It’s OK to have fight in a relationship.
It’s OK if you both are having different opinions on something.
It’s OK if you both don’t agree on a topic.
It’s OK if you feel to be misjudged by the love of your life.
But It’s not OK to decide what kind of person the other is.
It’s not OK to be like sacrificing-love-for-other’s-happiness kind of person.
It’s not OK to give feel of you-are-so-called-super-hero in a relationship.
The question I just had in my mind after the conversation was,
“Why the person whom we love, thinks that he/she doesn’t deserve to be in our life?
Who gave the right to him/her, that he/she will decide that he/she should not be in our life at least after a small fight?
Why just he/she doesn’t accept that yes, somewhere it’s his/her fault?”
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Confused….!!!!! Hope I can get answer from any of you??